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It is important, especially in a relationship or marriage, to understand how your words and actions affect others. Below are some things you can do that sound really easy and, in fact, will become healthy lifestyle changes with lots of practice amongst your significant other and yourself! Learn to be humble ; having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance. Daily consider the stress and/or negative events that may have taken place in your partner's day or life. Apologize when you are wrong! Know that it is okay to have differences but it is not okay to physically fight and verbally abuse each other over them! Write down and pray on things that you can or could do better. Ask your partner what you need him or her to do more of? Don't take offense to the answer but instead use it as a platform of communication.