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When is the right time to say I love you?  Before getting into that, I have to first tell you when not to say I love you? At the age of 18, I was single, sulking, and the prime host at my own pity party. It was a rainy Valentines' Day and I honestly just wanted to sleep the day away. I was invited on a double date with my cousin and a guy friend that she was not attracted to. This guy friend of hers was best friends with a guy that I knew had a crush on me. My cousin begged me to go because she did not want to spend Valentines' Day stuck in our dorm room. I only agreed to go on the date because I did not want her to go alone. What could possibly happen right?

Adultery is defined as having voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse. So I guess couples into swinging are technically committing adultery voluntarily; that will be another post.  I want to know what makes a person willing to take the risk of committing adultery?  Is it the rush they get from doing something forbidden? Are they justifying their actions because they feel emotionally deprived from their spouse? Or are they doing it because they have the opportunity? I am interested in your thoughts so let me know what you believe and why! Also be on the lookout for "And Then There was Adultery (2).